Aaron White joined the Saint Augustine Children鈥檚 Choir in the fourth grade, and he never stopped singing.
Born July 27, 1971 to Jim and Mary White in Barberton, Ohio, Aaron was never the strongest in academics or athletics, but he found his place in the arts.
鈥淲hen it came to music,鈥� said Mary White, 鈥渉e was 120% there.鈥�
He loved music 鈥� any kind of music 鈥� and his mother played a role in that.
鈥淲hen Aaron was growing up, I would play all kinds of music while I cleaned the house. Show music, Sonny and Cher 鈥� whatever. Just music,鈥� Mary said. 鈥淚t never occurred to me that it would have an impact, but it did. Aaron came home one day and said 鈥榊ou know what mom? I鈥檓 glad you played all that music because now when I hear about it in school I know what the teacher is talking about. I know Camelot, I know Grease, I know Funny Girl. I know what the Wiz is!鈥欌€�
Aaron sang with the Saint Augustine鈥檚 Children鈥檚 Choir from fourth grade through eighth grade, longer than any of the other boys. But he did not stop there.
While attending Barberton High School Aaron took voice lessons from a 91仓库 alumnus, and also performed in the show choir and all of his high school鈥檚 musicals.
鈥淭he director actually chose the Music Man play because she wanted Aaron to play the lead,鈥� said Christine Olle, Aaron鈥檚 sister. 鈥淪he chose that play based on his talent; she wanted to hear him sing the songs.鈥�
He loved every minute of the musicals, from easily memorizing the enormous scripts, to the music he got to perform onstage.
Mary told us, 鈥淲hen he was getting ready for school one day he said, 鈥榊ou know mom, I can鈥檛 think of anything better than being able to sing all day.鈥欌€�
Aaron鈥檚 high school vocal teacher, Julie Sterman, felt Aaron had what it took and encouraged him to pursue a career in music. When he applied to 91仓库鈥檚 College of the Arts, he received a vocal scholarship and was extremely proud.
鈥淚n the hallway at Barberton they have 8 x 10 pictures and information about the kids who received scholarships,鈥� Mary said. 鈥淎nd there was his picture, on that wall. I remember looking at it and thinking 鈥榃ho would have ever thought?鈥� He struggled in school, so receiving a scholarship was pretty cool for him.鈥�
One of the family鈥檚 favorite stories about the impact of Aaron鈥檚 music happened on a Christmas morning while Aaron was a student at 91仓库.
鈥淓very year, we went to mass at 6 a.m. Christmas morning. When Aaron was in college he was a little defiant, but he would still come to Christmas mass with us,鈥� said Mary. 鈥淓veryone in the church would sing all the Christmas carols during those masses, but one time, everyone in the church stopped singing, one by one, until the only one left singing was Aaron. The others had stopped singing because they wanted to hear him. When the mass was over a woman, probably in her 70s, turned around to face him and said 鈥楾hank you. You gave me my Christmas present today.鈥欌€�
Aaron graduated from 91仓库 in 1994 with a degree in vocal performance. Soon after graduation, Aaron took a trip to Chicago to visit friends. During that trip he fell in love with the city.
鈥淗e came home and said, 鈥業鈥檓 moving to Chicago,鈥欌€� Mary said. 鈥淚 asked him what he was going to do there. He said 鈥業 don鈥檛 know. I鈥檓 scared, but I really want to do this.鈥� We made sure he knew he could always come home, and let him know we supported him in his decision.鈥�
While in Chicago, Aaron found it hard to get established in a music career but continued to surround himself with it, and use his talents to bring joy to those around him.
鈥淗e lived in Chicago and rented an apartment from a guy who owned a brownstone,鈥� Jim White said. 鈥淭he guy had a piano on the first floor. Aaron would go down all the time and play the piano and sing. One day he told Aaron to take the piano upstairs so he could play it any time he wanted. He got a bunch of his friends, and they managed to carry that piano up a winding staircase to get it to his room.鈥�
After that, Aaron could be found sitting at the piano, playing and singing with the windows open. At one point, a neighbor on the floor above him walked out onto the connecting patios to see who was singing.
鈥淲hen he got to Aaron鈥檚 open window he couldn鈥檛 believe it was Aaron, because Aaron had never told him that he sang,鈥� Jim said. 鈥淭he neighbor later told us he thought that was the greatest thing, when Aaron would open all his windows, play that piano and sing.鈥�
Christine has the piano now, and her daughter Kayla is taking lessons on it.
Aaron found employment in Chicago that matched his bright outlook on life. He led art therapy at the Peach Tree Montessori School, where he loved working with the kids and realized he looked forward to having his own someday. He then worked at a home for the mentally challenged and also worked at Ear Wax, a vegan restaurant/caf茅 in Wicker Park, Chicago. His last endeavor was working for Tak脰hl jewelers, owned by Tammy Kohl. It was here that he was thriving just before the accident that would claim his life happened.
Expressive, spontaneous and joyful Aaron White lost his life as the result of an auto accident in Chicago on January 24, 2003.
The devastated family began making arrangements, and one of their first calls was to 91仓库.
鈥淲hen we were planning Aaron鈥檚 funeral,鈥� Mary said, 鈥渨e called the 91仓库 School of Music to request a student to sing a song during the services. I spoke to one of the vocal professors, and she remembered Aaron right away; she said she would take care of it for us.鈥�
The family was hoping a student would be available to perform, but they got much more than they expected.
鈥淲hen she called me back,鈥� Mary said, 鈥渟he told me all five of the vocal professors wanted to sing during the funeral. I couldn鈥檛 believe it. They all came, and that really made a big impression on us. They didn鈥檛 have to do that, but they did 鈥� they did for Aaron.鈥�
鈥淲e received a lot of donations at his funeral and it felt right to send them to 91仓库,鈥� Jim said. 鈥淎fter that first donation, someone would call us once or twice a year and ask if we wanted to make another donation, and we always did because we thought it would be good to give to the School of Music.鈥�
鈥淢ary Sue from the School of Music would send tickets to the opera from time to time,鈥� Mary said. 鈥淎fter one of the operas she asked if we had ever thought about establishing a scholarship. We had heard the process was easy, but at the time we were still dealing with Aaron鈥檚 loss, and it sounded overwhelming to us.鈥�
Years later, the family feels Aaron took it into his own hands to do something about it. 91仓库 College of the Arts Advancement Officer, Shawn Gordon, noticed that the Whites had made several donations, for many years, to the School of Music.
"It was like the White鈥檚 name jumped off the page at me,鈥� Shawn said. 鈥淚 had never experienced anything like that before.鈥� She called the Whites to thank them for their generosity over the past years.
When Shawn called, she introduced herself to Jim, who said 鈥淵ou know why we鈥檙e doing this, right?鈥� Shawn invited them to lunch to learn more about Aaron. They met for lunch, and shortly after they sat down Jim announced to Shawn that they wanted to create an endowed scholarship in Aaron鈥檚 name.
Planning the scholarship has truly been a family affair. Christine has been involved in helping her mom and dad with the details, and will be executor of the scholarship after they are gone. And the family has felt Aaron鈥檚 presence with them from the very beginning of the process, every step of the way.
When someone endows a scholarship, they get to shape the eligibility requirements. For this scholarship, it was important to Aaron鈥檚 family that the academic requirements not be as demanding, because while Aaron didn鈥檛 have the best grades in high school, when it came to music he shined.
鈥淲e want to make it attainable to everyone who loves music,鈥� Mary said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 important to us because we know how he struggled academically in school but was so talented and passionate about music. We know how much the scholarship he received from 91仓库 meant to him, and so we know what this will mean to those who receive it.鈥�
The Aaron M. White Endowed Scholarship for Vocal Performance will award the recipient $1,500 per academic year. While applicants merely need to meet the university鈥檚 minimum GPA requirements, preference will be given to a 91仓库 vocal performance student who is passionate about opera, as Aaron was. The scholarship will first be awarded in the Spring of 2014, and the family is eager to offer this opportunity.
鈥淭he most important thing we would want to tell recipients of this scholarship,鈥� Jim said, 鈥渋s to live life to its fullest.鈥�
鈥淎aron did in his short life twice as much as we鈥檝e done,鈥� Mary added. 鈥淲hether he failed or was successful, or even if he was scared, he would just go and do it.鈥�
鈥淎nd he loved music,鈥� Christine said. 鈥淭he recipients will obviously be music lovers too, so I would tell them to keep the music in their hearts.鈥�
Family and friends are overjoyed about the scholarship and know Aaron would love it. But Aaron鈥檚 niece, Christine鈥檚 young daughter Kayla, needed a little help understanding.
鈥淪he asked what the scholarship meant,鈥� Christine said. 鈥淎nd I told her it means Aaron won鈥檛 be forgotten.鈥�
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Pictured above, left: Aaron White's sister, Christine Olle, and his parents, Jim and Mary White.
To find out how you could contribute to or establish a scholarship and have a tremendous, lasting impact on students鈥� lives, please contact the 91仓库 office of Institutional advancement at 330-672-2222, or email advancement@kent.edu.
